Unbound Bender Flexible Internal Vibrator
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Kate Sloan is a writer specializing in sex and kink, who has reviewed hundreds of sex toys in over a decade on the sex beat. She is the author of the books 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do and 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender , and cohosts the podcasts The Dildorks and Question Box. “This was the first grinding toy I tried and the one I’d recommend most for strap-on play,” Sparks says. This toy slips over the base of a dildo to provide a little extra padding and stimulation for the person wearing the harness during strap-on sex.
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